Monday, January 2, 2012

Hello 2012!


Wait...what? How did that happen?!?
Well, it's 1:00 am, and I can't sleep. THIS is an unfortunate thing since I was planning on getting up early tomorrow (errr, today) and reading my bible, excersizing and doing all of the things that I normally would during the week so that I could ease my way back into a routine with the winding down of Christmas break. Alas, it seems that it is not meant to be. At least getting up @ 5:30 is not to be. You see, my mind is in an absolute frenzy right now! I blame it all on the fact that it is the first of the year and around this time of year people tend to make/ponder these little things called resolutions. Other people, that is. I don't tend to make them myself. But, for some reason this year I AM a ponderin'...or at least doing some serious self reflection over the past year and really all of my adult life. If that doesn't strike fear and regret I'm not sure what does!
So, anywho, I have been thinking about this year and what I would really like to accomplish and goals that I would like to set out for myself and my family (spiritually, financially, physically, etc) and I feel like my mind is completely over flowing with things that I want and NEED to change about my life and things that I want to accomplish. I thought maybe I would just write it out (or type it out as the case my be...for the world to see no less!) as I think about it and try and put it into practice. Hopefully my life will be changed and God will be glorified. So here you go, my first priority as I take intentional steps in becoming the wife and mother that I think God wants me to be. BTW, I am no fool to believe that I can make these changes on my own. I know full well how much I rely on God and His grace, wisdom and mercy through the work of the Holy Spirit to make these changes in my life. With out Him and His higher purpose in my life...I.Would.Fail. So, here is my first (of many, but we'll start with just one so as not to overwhelm you...) and most relevant goal, not just for 2012, but for life as I seek out and strive to live a life of SELF-CONTROL...DUN, DUN, DUN! Prayers appreciated =)
Here is the short story long. I'm kind of like the (not so)evil Dr. Doofenshmirtz from Phineas and Ferb. I always have a back story =)
My children (and husband!) have been home for 2 weeks. Let's just say that my nerves are a little freyed right now. Ok, Ok, if I'm honest it's more like I'm about to start popping the heads off of the little people in my life. There has been so much fighting, so much arguing, so much disobedience that I feel like the past almost 9 years of parenting has been completely ineffective. Let me tell you, that feels *awesome*. Plus I have just been so, so, SO frustrated with myself in the way that I have been handling all of this. Yelling, frustration, shortness, next to no patience, and zero self-controll in any of my emotions. Oh yes, I have not been hiding my feelings what so ever! So, I cleverly thought I would read Ginger Plowman's "Don't Make Me Count to Three" thinking that it would help me "fix" the kids. The only problem is while my kids are disobedient little sinners (more rarely then my little temper tantrums this week would lead you to believe) the real problem here is me. I think I have become much too lazy (I truly believe that yelling is about the most lazy form of communication there is) and am not addressing their issues as heart issues and am definitely NOT pointing them to scripture to resolve any issues in the way that I should. Convicting much? I think yes. Ughhh. Nice one, Heather. Soooooo, one of my goals is to really focus on changing my heart attitude in how I relate to my kids, being patient and kind, loving and nurturing. Being nurturing and affectionate is really, really hard for me. I don't know why! The awesome thing is that I know God is really working on my heart right now and that he will provide me with all I need to make these changes a reality. I'm so thankful for such a gracious and merciful God!
So, on that note, I really just accidentally happened upon this little challenge when I tried to go register for the Good Morning Girls winter bible study, which "coincidentally" looks like it will be a nice little tool to help me work through my above mentioned "issue". Check it out!
Until next time, Have a blessed day!
Heather

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Yummy Chicken Taco Recipe

With Josh and Myself jumping onto the "Insane Pain Train" (other wise known as the Insanity work out program) and having to deal with the constant dilema of what to eat during the 5 times a day we have to eat, I've kind of become a crazy person in search of yummy recipes that don't break the calorie bank, but that do fill us up and are well balanced in all of the areas we need. I have tried *many* recipes and not many have been very good, but last night I found a good one, YAY! So I thought I'd pass on the recipe!

CHICKEN TACOS

4-5 chicken breast halves, cooked and shredded
1 large tomato
1 medium onion
1 bunch of cilantro
2 cloves garlic minced
1 tbls chili powder
garlic salt to taste

blend in a blender or food processor all of the veggies and spices. Place shredded chicken in a skillet and pour the blended mixture over the chicken and simmer for about 20 minutes

Yum!

I did add a little cumin and think next time I'd use a little fresh squeezed lime juice before I roll up my taco. I served it on a whole wheat tortilla, fat free sour cream, shredded lettuce and a little bit of kraft fat free shredded cheese for a total of about 340 calories for a pretty decent sized taco. It was really good! Would also be great as a salad saving the 130 calories from the tortilla, but I need CARBS!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Oh to be 3 and take everything literally!

Kara: Mom, what are you doing?
Me: I'm getting ready to jump in the shower really quick
Kara: (gasp!) don't do that, you broked the shower
Me: What?
Kara: If you do a really big jump (on her tip toes, hands stretched high) you will BROKED THE SHOWER!
Me: Ok, how about I just step in carefully then, would that be better?
Kara: Sure. (she turns around and walks away)

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Oatmeal Pancakes

When we decided to send Jase and Ella back to public school this year after contemplating homeschooling, I decided that I needed to have a more structured and intentional morning with my children before sending them off to school for the day. Last year I found myself continuously frazzled and rushed heading out the door and I wanted to make this year different. So this year I've made my mind up to have the kids clothes lined up the night before, ready to go in the morning. I also have been planning what to have for breakfast the night before. To be quite honest, last year my kid's breakfast consisted of cold cereal while watching cartoons. NOT THIS YEAR! Not that I condemn cold cereal, I'm sure we'll have it plenty, but I really wanted to make breakfast time a time of gathering, talking about the day ahead, reading and prayer, hoping to feed both their bodies and souls well before they head off into the real world. It's been great! I don't know if it's just me, but I think the kids look forward to this time a little more if there is something "special" waiting for them to eat as we sit together in the morning. So I've been on the hunt for things to make for breakfast that are easy, usually warm and generally nutritious. My friend Linda helped encourage me in a blog post from her blog to try making things from scratch, especially when it can be so easy, instead of using mixes with all of their artificial flavors and preservatives, making them much healthier...always a plus! This morning I tried out a real winner from allrecipes.com. It was so delicious, easy and fast that I'll be making them again tomorrow! I thought I'd throw it out here on the blog in case anyone else wanted to try it!


OATMEAL PANCAKES

1/2 c. all-purpose flour
1/2 c. quick cooking oats
1 Tbls. white sugar
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp salt
3/4 cup buttermilk
1 tsp vanilla extract
2 Tbls. vegetable oil
1 egg

Place all ingredients in a food processor and puree until smooth.

Heat a lightly oiled griddle or frying pan over medium high heat. Pour or scoop the batter onto the griddle using approximately 1/4 cup for each pancake. Brown on both sides and serve hot.

You could obviously change them a little to make them even more nutritious, which I'll try later and I'd also encourage you to double the recipe because this only made 6 pancakes, which is fine if you are only feeding three little munchkins, but if you want to partake also or you have more/older kiddos, you'll need more then 6!
Easy peasy lemon squeezy and super yummy, try them out!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Two Thumbs Up!

I just made and tried these muffins that I got from allrecipes.com and they were very yummy! So, I'm passing the recipe on to you!


I used mini chocolate chips instead of regular ones and pecans instead of walnuts. Next time I will probably reduce the cinnamon and ditch the chocolate hips and replace them with crasins or something like that!

Seminary Muffins
recipe image
Rated:rating
Submitted By: Christa Adams
Photo By: Jackshoe
Prep Time: 10 Minutes
Cook Time: 20 Minutes
Ready In: 30 Minutes
Servings: 12
"Bananas and applesauce make these muffins very moist and tender."
INGREDIENTS:
1 egg
1 1/3 cups mashed ripe banana
3/4 cup packed brown sugar
1/3 cup applesauce
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 cup all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 1/4 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 cup quick cooking oats
1/2 cup semisweet chocolate chips
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
DIRECTIONS:
1.Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Lightly grease one 12 cup muffin pan.
2.In a large bowl, combine egg, banana, brown sugar, applesauce and vanilla. In a separate bowl, sift together flour, baking soda, baking powder, salt and cinnamon.
3.Gently stir flour mixture and oatmeal into banana mixture. Fold in chocolate chips and walnuts. Pour batter into prepared muffin cups.
4.Bake in preheated oven or 15 to 20 minutes, or until light brown. Remove muffins from pan and place on a wire rack to let cool before serving.
ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © 2010 Allrecipes.comPrinted from Allrecipes.com 8/12/

Monday, July 26, 2010

Great Quote from EM Bounds

Since I consider prayer the most week point in my spiritual life, I thought this quote was very encouraging. It was posted on the Joshua Harris blog after his mother died.

"The [woman] who has done the most and the best praying is the most immortal, because prayers do not die. Perhaps the lips that uttered them closed in death, or the heart that felt them may have ceased to beat, but the prayers live before God, and God's heart is set on them. Prayers outlive the lives of those who uttered them-outlive a generation, outlive an age, outlive a world."

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Interesting Post That I Found Via challies.com

Too Much Church! 5 Dangers Facing Over-Churched Kids

by TONY KUMMER on TUESDAY 20 JULY 2010| Print Print

in CHILDREN'S MINISTRY LEADERSHIP

Bored Child

A top concern for most kids pastors is reaching the children in their communities who do not attend church. These unchurched kids simply don’t know much about the Bible. Often they have a mixed up version of Jesus gathered from TV shows. Before they can give their lives to Him, they need a basic introduction to the Good News.

On the other end of the spectrum are kids who are overexposed to church. These are the children who attend every service, and can’t remember anytime when they didn’t come to church. In my ministry, most of these kids also attend a Christian school. They can recite the books of the Bible, they’ve memorized countess Scripture verses, and they know details about Bible stories that I can’t even remember.

By over-churched kids, I mean children with too much religion and not enough actual interaction with Jesus. Attending church is important and should promote spiritual growth, but sometimes there are side effects. In this post, I will describe the spiritual dangers these kids face. You can also read our follow up post that offers 9 strategies for reaching these kids.

This is not an easy topic and I expect some push back from readers. But this is an issue we need to address now, before we raise the next crop of Pharisees.

1. Familiar Stories Lose Their Power: When kids hear the same Bible stories year-after-year they can become a little boring. Even worse – these stories are often told without imagination or any listener interaction. Most over-churched kids have heard the same 100+ Bible stories since they were in the Toddler Sunday School. They no longer connect with the characters or feel moved by the plot resolution. Once I was told by a seminary professor, “ It is a sin to make the Bible boring.” I’m starting to think he was right.

2. Knowledge Can Promote Pride: Something happens inside of us when we become the expert. Children feel that same sense of superiority when they have more religious knowledge than their peers. Too often over-churched kids build their identity around that achievement, even when it doesn’t involve a growing relationship with Christ.

3. They Have Learned to Pretend Pray: A real struggle for grown-ups is connecting with God through prayer. Too often it becomes routine and dry. Most younger children learn prayer as an act of imitation. Many don’t even realize that something cosmic is happening when we address our words to God. They don’t feel the presence of God or even expect that they should.

4. They Don’t Feel Their Lostness: Many over-churched kids don’t know what life is like without the comforts of faith. Their brain say ‘forgiveness’ before their heart feels ‘I’m sorry.’ Because they know about grace, they have never really struggled much with guilt.

5. The Ugly Side of Church: Kids who hang around Christians know the yucky side of the church. They hear the complaining. They know Jesus didn’t fix daddy’s temper yet. They know that church is not always the safest place in their lives. Beyond all this they notice when adults are being fake or doing religious role play

Monday, July 19, 2010

Apparently Kara is a Third Day fan...


I never knew this about her, but as they played at the end of city fest, she was super excited and jumping around while they played. Third Day, btw was AWESOME! I would love to go to a concert sometime and hear more then 5 songs from them!
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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Kara


This is a picture of Kara from Sean and Jenny's wedding...just thought it was cute!
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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

IT'S A DAD'S LIFE...

This video has definitely gone viral now, but it happens to be hilarious!

Monday, June 14, 2010

What is in a Name?

I was reading an article from Tim Dallies blog this afternoon while I was eating lunch. I thought it was very interesting, thought provoking, and a skosh convicting. So I thought I'd repost it for all of my friends who would call themselves reformed out there.


A Parody of Ourselves

Every so often I’ve contemplated what a Saturday Night Live type of variety program might look like if the topic was “Christendom.” There’s definitely enough material. One of the recurring skits would involve some Christians from the 1400’s about to be burned at the stake. They would be visited by contemporary Christians who would thank them for their sacrifice and tell them how such a great sacrifice gained later Christians ________. You could fill in the blank with all sorts of things. “Your sacrifice has helped give us a world in which our children can learn theology from talking vegetables. Your suffering will all seem worth it when a handsome Texan with a great smile can renovate a sports stadium and broadcast feel-good, gospel-free theology to all the world. Thank you for your noble sacrifice, brother.” Tyndale might have been willing to face the stake for the sake of the Bible, but would he have faced it for a Bible-zine for girls that looks and reads like Cosmo?

I’m a writer, not a comedian, so perhaps it’s not that funny. But the point is that real people died real deaths to pass to us a heritage of the gospel. They were serious, dead serious, and weren’t in the business of printing silly bumper stickers. We evangelicals have long done a remarkable job of trivializing that heritage. Maybe this is what happens when the danger of persecution passes and we enjoy a time of safety, a time of freedom. Or maybe this is what happens when we lose sight of the seriousness of the gospel and the countless sacrifices that made it available to us, when we begin to replace theology with something else, something less.

A friend of mine became the Senior Pastor of his church in 2003, when everyone and their grandmother was writing and talking about how to make church relevant and more attractive to postmoderns. My friend had read Rick Warren and Bill Hybels but found them unsatisfying. Then in the spring of 2004 he had the opportunity to attend a 9Marks conference. He had not heard of Mark Dever and knew nothing of 9Marks but it was close to home and it seemed to him like such an event might be helpful to his ministry. It ended up being far more than that. It was life-changing.

The 9Marks conference, as it has done with so many other pastors, drew him back to the heart of what the Bible says about church, ministry and the gospel. And as a new Senior Pastor (with 23 years already behind him as an associate in the same church), it gave him a clear and renewed sense of direction for the conduct of his ministry. It pulled him out of anything-works-pragmatism and steered him toward a gospel-centered, gospel-focused, gospel-infused ministry.

Through 9Marks he was introduced to the world of what has now come to be known as the Young, Restless and Reformed (or the New Calvinism depending on who you ask). He had been a Calvinist for most of his ministry, but he had found most Calvinists he met tended toward the grumpy, the provincial. This new movement joined people like him to a Presbyterian crowd and even a Charismatic crowd. It built something that was unique, at least in our day and something that was really and objectively delightful—a people united around theology, not methodology. The church rediscovered theology that in so many circles had long since lay dormant.

His story is not at all unusual; it’s representative, perhaps, of the stories of thousands of other pastors who have revolutionized their understanding of the church, of its function and message and importance. And for every older pastor who has joyfully adapted his ministry, many more young pastors have grown into just this kind of ministry through mentors or through seminaries. All indications are that the movement continues to grow, to gain strength, to gain a prominent voice in the church even if not far beyond. And I am genuinely thrilled to see theology supplanting pragmatism at the center of the church.

So maybe this is a good time to ask, what’s next? Will we remain faithful to the gospel and look for more ways to be faithful to it? Or will we get, well, goofy?

Back to the martyr’s skit. What will we bring these guys? What will we have to show Huss and Tyndale and Cranmer and so many others like them? No doubt there will be good things to bring to the places of their sacrifice—evidence that the gospel they worked for and in some cases died for was alive and well and being passed on to another generation. Much of the theology they mined from the Bible is alive today in the Young, Restless and Reformed. But I fear that along with the good, and maybe eventually overwhelming much of the good, we’d bring our clutter, our junk, our nonsense, our bobble-heads. And there is an increasingly large pile of it waiting to be sorted through.

A friend recently told me “Slap the word Reformed on anything and I’ll buy it.” He was joking, thankfully, but he makes a point. We baptize products, people, musical styles, ministries, stores with the word Reformed to initiate them into our camp, to say that they are now part of the in-crowd. Slap the label Reformed on it and we suddenly do develop a new interest in it.

We have our Reformed celebrities. When John MacArthur speaks there is an immediate dissection of his words to see if he is tacitly critiquing someone or something. Mark Dever calls paedobaptism a sin and the headlines blare. When John Piper sneezes, the blogosphere is abuzz. Taken in isolation these may not mean very much at all. Taken together they start to sound like a Reformed edition of People magazine. Are we about the gospel here? Or are we about the people, the leaders, the voices? Want to hear some gossip about why a famous pastor took a sabbatical? Check the back pages of Reformed People.

I’ve got nothing against Edwards t-shirts or Luther bobble-heads or Calvin rally towels. Put it all together, though, throw it all into a box or lay it all out in a bookstore table, and it starts to come into focus. We’re always in danger of becoming a parody of ourselves, a deformed version of the very movements we have come out of. We could so easily become as much about the stuff as the theology, as much about the swag as the doctrine. If it happened to them it could happen to us, right?

I love the word Reformed; it has a long and noble heritage. And yet somehow it seems that Reformed has transitioned from a kind of theological short-hand, a useful way of describing a lot of theology in just one word, and has instead become an identity, a flag which I run up a flagpole as a means of self-identification. Reformed used to be a terse and convenient short-hand to express “I believe in the doctrines of grace, I believe in God’s total sovereignty, I adhere to certain creeds and confessions, and so on.” In one word we could summarize an entire theological position. Today, though, I fear that it is associated far more with names and personalities than theology. Reformed means “I listen to this pastor, I read these books, I go to these conferences.” But my theology may be vastly different from the Reformed guy beside me. It is an identity, not a theology, a connection to a group, not a belief. It’s a pass card, credentials allowing admittance into a community, an experience. And as such it generates swag, it generates junk, it generates all of that stuff like talking vegetables, Bible superheroes and Bible-zines.

We will need to work hard to prevent Reformed from becoming a mere fad. Fads come and fads go and usually they go on for just a bit too long. By the time they disappear we are glad to see them go since they’ve long since outlived their usefulness or their enjoyment. Rickrolling was funny for three days but lasted for six months; WWJD made a few people think over the course of a few weeks but stuck around for years. But both were fads and both eventually died an inevitable death. No one shed a tear for either one. We need to be all about the gospel lest we become yet another passing fad, a puff of smoke in the wind.

Up the street a little way sits a small Baptist Church that must subscribe to a newsletter for the world’s worst church sign slogans—things like like “Become an Organ Donor—Give Your Heart to Jesus.” Quality stuff. I drive by there often and, while fighting to keep my car from running it down “by accident,” I wonder if anyone takes them seriously. How could they? It’s a sharp display of the way the Gospel can be trivialized. “Prayer—Wireless Access to God with No Roaming Fee.”

I know that kind of nonsense has been going on for decades. But are we next? Could this Reformed movement become a parody of itself? I hope and pray that it’s not but I can’t deny that it’s beginning to show some hints that it could become that way. Sure it’s fun and inspiring even, but am I the only one who is starting to feel that if we aren’t careful we will just become “a thousand people in the street, singing songs and carrying signs, mostly saying, Hooray for our side.” I think it’s time that we paused to consider whether we’re all about the gospel, all about what the Bible commands us to believe, or if we’re increasingly becoming about who we are. The difference between the two is immeasurable.

It certainly wouldn’t hurt us to stop, hey, what’s that sound, and everybody look what’s going down

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Meet Rick.


This is our new youth and family ministries director, Rick. He and his super awesome wife Jen came over for lunch today after church with the Carlson's and the Koethke's. This is how he spent most of his time here until the pizzas arrived. Something about this scene really blessed my heart, but I'm not quite sure how to put it into words. It was like feeling the peace and calmness of God's sovereignty after a time of feeling a little bit lost and a lot unsettled. We already love them dearly and are SO excited to see how God will use them at SVC!
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These pictures are all out of order...grrrrr, but this is Jase and Ella finishing up the race. It was so cute!



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HC Runners Fun Run/Walk

With all of the races I have been doing, the kids have really taken notice and expressed interest in doing some races of their own. I was supposed to take them to Bloomsday with me this year so they could do the Marmot March which is a race for kids on the saturday before Bloomsday, but I failed misserably as a mother and didn't get them signed up in time (Jase was devistated because he had been looking forward to it since LAST year's bloomsday!) so I have been keeping my eyes peeled for other races they could do and this one came up on a list of free events for kids to participate in this summer. The kids were so excited and had so much fun. It was a 1.2 mile course through parts of the greenway. I was so proud of Jase and Ella who ran the whole way on their own. Ella actually really surprised me. I didn't know she had it in her...I see running in her future, might as well put those long legs to use!

Pre-race photos. Thankfully those ominous black clouds didn't dump on us for the 1/2 hour we were there!

This is how Kara spent the time while we ran!
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Roasting Hot Dogs in the Fire Pit


On Mother's Day I took the kids over to my parents house to roast hot dogs and s'mores in the fire pit. The kids absolutely loved it and were completely filthy afterwards (of course!)
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This Old House


Here's a picture of the old house when we went to go look at it before the knocked it down (which they still haven't done yet!) I bet that Natalie could have done wonders with it!
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Sunday, April 11, 2010

Holding Fast to the Word of Life

I know this isn't a picture of some super fun thing that I am doing, or my family is doing, but it's more important. If you are like me and have trouble "making time" or even desiring to spend time in the word of God daily, I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE you to check out THIS LINK to a sermon from John Piper. The video is about 45 minutes long and it's best if you can watch it if only to see him quote the entire book of Philippians from memory (amazing) and to not only hear but see his passion. It is very encouraging and convicting, which I think are both important in developing spiritual growth. Please friends, take the time to watch it. I promise that it won't be time wasted =)

Monday, April 5, 2010

Bye Bye Kauai...

I say that with a big frowny face. We had such a fabulous time, it's sad to say it's over.


For those of you who don't know, Josh's parents gifted us a week away at their time-share in Kauai for our ten year anniversary...yes, it's been 10 years and no I can't believe it. We were so blessed to get to meet up with Josh's brother Chad and his wife Bridgette and Josh's sister Heather and her husband Jay and their friends Matt and Megan. It was a SWEET time of adult only fellowship that rarely (I think this is the first!) happens. It was a great time of relaxation, adventure and LOTS of laughing and you know I love all three of those things! We saw the Waimea canyon, went on a zodiac tour of death (you can ask me about that in person if you want details, much to long of a story to type!), kayaked, zip-lined, hiked ( I use the term loosely ) saw dolphins, swam with tropical fish and sea turtles and soaked in all of the sun we could handle...not that you would be able to tell by looking at me, thank you SPF 70! I loved this trip, it was full of life long memories. Enjoy the pictures, sorry there are so few, but I was too busy DOING things (most of which involved water!) But you can check out Heather or Bridgette's blogs to see what else we were up to! Time for bed...Though it feels early to me it's actually almost 1 am and 7:00 is going to be a RUDE awakening in the morning!

Poipu Beach


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The Waiohai sits right on Poipu beach, a beautiful, perfect place for snorkeling and great boogie boarding right around that sandbar you see out there. GLORIOUS!

The Waiohai

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This is the Waiohai, the fantastic place we stayed, courtesy of Josh's parents as a 10 year anniversary gift to us. It was wonderful! If you click the link it'll show you what the rooms were like since I didn't get any pictures of the inside, but it was perfect. Chad and Bridge were in our "villa" and Heather and Jay and Matt and Megan were in the villa right next door to us, so we'd walk out our back door and walk right in their back door. SO FUN! I would highly recommend this place...right on the beach and PERFECT for families...if you have to take your's with you =)